Since my daughter's crime is unsolved I have reported this to the detectives on the case. Only family can create memorials under 90 days and Id suggest a year. This is wrong! I couldn't care less about the number of memorials I create (you refer to these as "points"; I assure you, they are not); have GREAT empathy, compassion and respect when it comes to the dead, and certainly don't chase bodies. This was a second marriage for Mary Ann when she had been widowed and married James Payne in 1862. Good luck! Please try again later. A community of members that work together, share information and help people from all over the world to find, record and present final disposition information as a virtual cemetery experience. FindAGrave is pure grossess. BBB Scam Tracker Still Need Assistance? If the family wants their relatives and has proved the relationship, then their request should be honored. It's bad players like these that makes you question the motives of some of the [censored] contributors. everyone wants the records to be as correct as we can get them! Being a republican or democrat should have nothing to do with findagrave and southern history of our confederate veterans memorials. Please enter your email address and we will send you an email with a reset password code. This is a warped site managed by sub human creatures that crawled out from public sewers. I am sure you can find another forum for that discussion. Your argument is that findagrave is an open, safe space for individuals who can create memorials of family members and friends. Choose a topic below to begin. . This person stalks and harasses me by following my flowers i leave on thousands of memorials. especially towards Chinese superstitious people. I really do not care what other people think, or if it is public record. May I add most of the memorials r created by bored housewives who make a game of how many of these things they can make. They are about a month behind in their email correspondence. TeeJLee, From my and others' experience, findagrave sends messages via every email. because if her friends/her classmates/classmates parents. My complaint was with those who rush to submit the memorial as soon as they can-whether they have any connection to the person, the cemetery, or the general area. I don't see the point in the complaint. My parents and grandparents memorials were hijacked by Patsy Lubben DiMarco. Findagrave has a rule, family and friend of dead can report stolen headstone photo to findagrave staff and staff can remove the page down and suspend that member (Creator). compete on how many records make is useless. I am now being stalked by these administrators and they dont stop. Celine McKay It is disturbing that Ancestry has television commercials depicting African Americans searching for their ancestors, when so many records remain un-indexed and hidden from discovery. Weve updated the security on the site. If someone complains about an individual contributor to Find a Grave, Find a Grave will pick on that contributor through the use of some type of monitoring technology. Fire Sarah, the evil administrator who removed my account, and threatened to have me arrested because she refused to treat me the same as other members. It's not on the tombstone and it was a nickname given to him by coworker where he worked for 4 years from [protected]. I am also a member of Ancestry which owns FindaGrave, yet there has been no correction and no help. Even if it's only photo share, if you not ask owner. Ancestry manages Find a Grave. Read full review of Find A Grave and 2 comments. I am not going to get into a long heated debate with anyone on here so let me get that out of the way first. They are supposed to transfer but don't. Terminate Brenda Beatty McGraw. They are allowing another Administrator SMS to steal and/ or remove original profiles to make it their own. You create a Memorial for a deceased loved one. Truly pathetic. There's an etiquette to these things, whether anyone follows it or not. The info on him was compiled by several members, and info from members of the Montgomery county Md. Sharon Haywood. Claim it and get a lot of features. When someone creates a memorial, that means they were either related to this person or a close personal friend. the dead person family (headstone person family or friend) can report to findagrave that you are unauthorized then your burial record on that person will be deleted immediately. As for it being private, we all are public knowledge now and after we die. If so, why get a headstone in the first place, just use a rock so you can find her. People like that just want to get numbers and be big on the web site. I was born in 1978 but sorry for your daughter. I wanted to create a memorial for my grandfather and grandmother on Find A Grave. Desired outcome: Yes Virginia. God bless you all ! To a point, I don't blame him. FindAGrave was meant to help people find where someone's last resting place was. Find a Grave is connected to Ancestry. This is stealing/theft/vandalism. Owner block you. I can spend DAYS combing a cemetery with over 15, ooo headstones to find just one. A. I only record what is mentioned on the stone. Delete anything you don't want. Add a new memorial or a photo and GPS location to an existing memorial. And yes, they are a husband-wife . NO I DID NOT! 1, Report #1386798. The whole point of a grave stone is to publicly honor the person's life. Wasted my timeFind A Grave has changed a lot since it changed hands. I have complained to Find A Grave several times about misinformation on my family site (father, grandfather, grandmother and great grandparents) and use of their head stones without my permission. And we are all volunteers. I respect a families wishes whenever possible but in this instance it appears it was his daughter wanting it removed although her siblings wanted it to stay. As for memorials being an invasion of privacy, while I feel for the woman who didn't want her daughter's stone put up on the website, if I had a photo up and a family member asked me to remove it I would. They play upon emotion. My response is that there are too many members on Find A Grave who do NOT follow the rules. Please include the cemetery ID number or the URL to the cemetery page on Find a Grave. However, if you can provide me with a suitable certificate ,then I will make your change and attribute it to yourself. As for Obit's find a grave dose say not to add names of living family members but some people still add them. their own unique way of cataloging data. However she has not had a burial service, I'm looking at her urn right now and her obituary stated "private internment held at a later date". Remove the name of the original creator & the number from their count when the memorial is transferred to a family member. So Ancestry is breaking Find a Grave's guidelines. Visit Website Email this Business (919) 862-3704 This business has 0 complaints File a Complaint Burial Assistance Delivery Service Monuments Caskets Overview Never Forgotten Memorials delivers. The dead could care less what u do. Sometimes if you initiate polite conversation, they will comply or explain why they won't. Jul 19 2017. For consumers, it can happen through online feedback forms or customer service countersbut consumer complaints are a separate matter. I made no comments about the timeline of adding memorials, scanning of obituaries, nor any comment about how many memorials certain people have. My heart goes out to you. I need to confirm my email address with Find a Grave..I don't know why is a leget address..I was thinking maybe all a SCAM. Gatsey, check Find A Grave's Help section to make sure you are sending your messages to the correct email address. And he is friends with [censored] staff because he had something done to one of my postings so that it could not be edited. They are getting fresh air and exercise. Not true. My Find a Grave ID is: [protected] My daughter was kidnapped, sexually assaulted and murdered and the manager posted numerous newspaper articles about this in the bio section. If u r family or tourists u can take photos. Nothing is sacred here. Legally and geneticly they are not related at all. There is a problem with your email/password. A problem occurred. If a family member has asked you to remove a memorial, than you do it. I asked that they please have the spouse or parents of that person contact me and I'd be glad to do whatever they wished but I wouldn't remove it from just that email. they will ban her. I too thought that direct family should include aunts and uncles. You're not alone in your complaint. It's definitely not a contest. If you complain to FindAGrave's hierarchy you are either suspended or blocked from the site. When I add names, etc. Big, fat demented I don't want her u can have her circus freak, Megan Heyl is holding my decessed 6 month old son's memorial hostage and refuses to turn ownership back to me. The site would consist solely of faked pictures. Seriously? I thank them for their time and move on. or "PRECIOUS HARD WORK" Submit a complaint and get your issue resolved. So contact ancestry.Com about this. What I do know is this tracking down ancestor graves is HARD work. The "known disposition" is the key - you have to know the disposition BEFORE you add a memorial. Within 5 kilometers of your location. Every one listen, this website is a blessing to everyone that's on it, it was put here to view memorials and find peace. Find A Grave is a free website providing access to and an opportunity to input cemetery information to an online database of cemetery records. If you don't want her known, then remove her headstone or put her in a more private place (urn). If you do not want others to see you name or your daughter's do not put it on the stone. Search consumer complaints, reviews and information about find-a-grave. She claims she has THE RIGHT to document what she pleases. Brought in dead to The Meath Hospital, Heytesbury Street, Dublin, having had a Coronary Occlusion & Paroxysmal Tachycardia, certified An alternative - Forever Missed. It is in fact not precious hard work, it is simply walking around and taking pictures of graves. I have contacted find a grave through their website and received one response but no corrections! The information on six posts are false and falsely placed according to statements of family and or records listed. I do not just run through grave yards and posts memorials for people I do not know or am related to. who never knew her. They typically do that when a member has a long history of violating their site policies. Grave Matters Chuck and Kristy Robinett. People who hate memorials listed as "burial details unknown", Aggressive elderly man is mad at me because I made his memorial famous, Find A Grave - protects stalkers and harassments, Find A Grave - Unfair and bad membership service, Find A Grave - Added to website before a family knew a death had happened. With no regard for the family Megan Heyl also added time sensitive material that is really none of her business i.e. Totally agree. This is not precious. Owner block you. Stop awarding points like trophies. Doesn't bring back my daughter, but at least helps. If so, why get a headstone in the first place, just use a rock so you can find her. If you have information that would help us update details about a cemetery on the site, please let us know. Like FB you control what's on the page. see that photo on findagrave site. Often obituaries are no longer findable, after a certain length of time. Sometimes if you ask nicely, someone will comply with your wishes. The process of asking findagrave to give you a memorial someone else is managing? Nothing has been done and I'm upset! The mechanics do not work like you were brainwashed to believe. Share your photos and videos with others to prove the truth of your words. We are no longer private people. Find and visit a loved one's final resting place anywhere, anytime. Findagrave is gross and obscene.